If you don’t take things to a physical level quickly after creating sexual tension, it will eventually go away, and you’ll be left with just “friend” material.

If you don’t make any “moves”, don’t try to kiss her, and don’t confidently lead in a physical way, a woman will only think of you as a “friend”.

Even if there is attraction based on personality, it’s going to disappear if you don’t cross over into the physical realm. 98% of the time, she’s NOT going to be the one to make the first moves… it’s just not going to happen.

YOU have to do it.

Women are very adaptable, and if you take things too far, just remember to diffuse the situation quickly and learn from it.

Once she sees that you were just using your cocky attitude on her, she’ll most likely bounce right back.

Unfortunately, too many guys will turn into insta-wuss and start apologizing for what they said.

Don’t do that!

Continue on, just back off a bit of the hardness of your talk.

She’ll stay with you.

I recommend that you DO NOT do something expensive and typical like going and picking a woman up, taking her to dinner, etc. for a first date.

Instead, either:

1) Have her come to your place, and leave for a cup of tea from there.

2) Meet her at a coffee shop that’s CLOSE to your place, and if she flakes out, you can still enjoy yourself and you’re not far from home.

Another rule of thumb I have is to not make a date too far in advance.

I’ve found that often times, you can call a woman up and say “Let’s go get a cup of coffee RIGHT NOW”.

It’s rare that I would ever make plans more than a day in advance… this also helps prevent flaking out and canceling your date.

Remember, a woman wants to feel secure that you’re not just “pretending” to be a cool, calm, cocky, funny, in-control guy.

This is why you’ll get tested in many, many ways… at many different times.

Just keep being confident and a MAN, and stop asking questions like “Should I give her a hard time about grilling me when my defences were down”.

That’s Wuss talk.

If you’ve done enough of the RIGHT things, you can slip a few times and do a few wrong things.

Just don’t make a habit of it, because she’ll be gone in a flash.

And by the way, DON’T BE BORING!

It is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.