When you cross the street you stop and look first, right?

When you talk with a woman do you just go off at the mouth, trying to convince her that you’re a likeable guy?

Running on at the mouth is:
1) Bad because you end up talking about nonsense;
2) Bad because you don’t take into account what she thinks about what you’re saying;
3) Bad because you don’t give her the “face time” that will make her attracted to you by letting her talk.

Don’t act like you want her attention. You need to relax.

If you’re having trouble “being yourself” around women then let her be “her self” around you.

You’ll score more points this way and she will be more attracted to you simply because you listen to her!

If you’re getting ignored on instant messenger, then you’re probably being just a bit too pushy when chatting with women.

Lean back.

Tease.

Make a comment online, then say “I have to run”… Don’t act like you want her attention.

Relax.

And did I mention that you need to relax?

Did you hear the story about the old bull and the young bull standing on the hill? The young bull says “Hey let’s run down there and have sex with one of those cows!”

Old bull looks at him and says “Let’s walk down there and have sex with all of them.”

Ponder. Reflect. Repeat.