Thursday’s Dating Tip

Eye Contact Signals

Eye contact is amazing. Most men can’t keep eye contact with a woman who’s looking right at them.

This “breaking eye contact” signals to a woman that you are NOT secure, confident, and SEXY. You must learn to keep eye contact until SHE breaks it. Next, don’t worry too much about the eye contact.

The guys I know who are best with women approach women that they’re interested in whether they’ve made eye contact or not. It doesn’t matter. Sure, if you DO make eye contact, and she holds it for a little longer than she should, it’s a “move forward” signal… but you have to get over the idea that you NEED eye contact first.

I’ve approached HUNDREDS of women that I DIDN’T make eye contact with… and gotten great results. And when you’re dealing with EXCEPTIONAL women who are VERY attractive, you’ll find that they don’t “look around” as much, because they’re trying to AVOID eye contact with too many men… as they know that this will trigger an endless line of men who are trying to get their attention.

Do what YOU want to do. It’s YOUR reality, remember?

First of all, Cocky and Funny isn’t a super-secret, covert manipulation tactic. It’s a way of flirting, teasing, and interacting with women that they enjoy.

Second, I’ve found that the only women who DON’T respond well to it are women who are UPTIGHT, women who aren’t at all interested, or overly SHY women who are intimidated (in which case you can usually just tone it down and have fun with them too).

That’s my personal experience. Smart, nerdy girls like the ones you’re attracted to (I’m happy you have that market cornered, by the way) should LOVE to spar with you and will probably LOVE your Cocky and Funny attitude. Keep it intellectual.

There will ALWAYS be situations in life when things don’t work for you. Tiger Woods screws up a lot of shots, and he’s the best in the world at golf. Michael Jordan misses a lot of shots, and he’s the best in the world at BBall.

We don’t live in an ideal testing lab, we live in reality.

Don’t worry about what won’t work, and find what will.

The thing to watch for to keep from going too far with Cocky and Funny is a woman getting VISIBLY ANGRY or asking you to leave. If that happens, walk away.