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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, Cocky and Funny isn&#8217;t a super-secret, covert manipulation tactic. It&#8217;s a way of flirting, teasing, and interacting with women that they enjoy.</p>
<p>Second, I&#8217;ve found that the only women who DON&#8217;T respond well to it are women who are UPTIGHT, women who aren&#8217;t at all interested, or overly SHY women who are intimidated (in which case you can usually just tone it down and have fun with them too).</p>
<p>That&#8217;s my personal experience. Smart, nerdy girls like the ones you&#8217;re attracted to (I&#8217;m happy you have that market cornered, by the way) should LOVE to spar with you and will probably LOVE your Cocky and Funny attitude. Keep it intellectual.</p>
<p>There will ALWAYS be situations in life when things don&#8217;t work for you. Tiger Woods screws up a lot of shots, and he&#8217;s the best in the world at golf. Michael Jordan misses a lot of shots, and he&#8217;s the best in the world at BBall.</p>
<p>We don&#8217;t live in an ideal testing lab, we live in reality.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry about what won&#8217;t work, and find what will.</p>
<p>The thing to watch for to keep from going too far with Cocky and Funny is a woman getting VISIBLY ANGRY or asking you to leave. If that happens, walk away.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; color: #000080; font-size: medium;"><strong>“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU  Probably  Make With Women—  And What To Do About It&#8230;”</strong></span></p>
<p align="center"><strong> <span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"> And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes&#8230;</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong> <span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”</span></strong></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be  attracted &#8220;nice&#8221; guys?<br />
Of course you have.<br />
Just like me, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve had attractive female friends that always seemed  to date &#8220;jerks&#8221;&#8230; but for some reason they were never romantically interested  in YOU.<br />
What&#8217;s going on here?<br />
It&#8217;s actually very simple&#8230;<br />
<strong>Women don&#8217;t base their choices of men on how &#8220;nice&#8221; a guy is.</strong> They choose the  men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.<br />
And guess what?<br />
Being nice doesn&#8217;t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.<br />
And being NICE doesn&#8217;t make a woman CHOOSE you.<br />
I realize that this doesn&#8217;t make a lot of logical sense, and it&#8217;s hard to  ACCEPT&#8230; but GET OVER IT.<br />
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you&#8217;ll NEVER have the success  with women that you want.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You&#8221;</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like&#8230; but she&#8217;s  just notinterested?<br />
Right! They try to &#8220;convince&#8221; the woman to feel differently.<br />
Well, I have news for you&#8230; YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN &#8220;FEELS&#8221; WHEN IT  COMES TO ATTRACTION!<br />
Never, ever, EVER.<br />
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with &#8220;logic and  reasoning&#8221;.<br />
Think about it.<br />
If a woman doesn&#8217;t &#8220;feel it&#8221; for you, how in the world do you expect to change  that FEELING by being &#8220;reasonable&#8221; with her?<br />
But we all do it.<br />
When a woman just isn&#8217;t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to  change her mind.<br />
Bad idea. One that will never work.</span></p>
<p><strong> <span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like  us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman&#8217;s &#8220;approval&#8221; or  &#8220;permission&#8221;.<br />
Another HORRIBLE idea.<br />
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them&#8230; EVER.<br />
Don&#8217;t get me wrong here.<br />
You don&#8217;t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.<br />
But if you think that treating a woman well means &#8220;always getting her approval  and permission for things&#8221;, think again.<br />
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at  men who seek their approval.<br />
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and  want her approval annoy her&#8230;</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and  flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn&#8217;t treat her even HALF as  well as you did?<br />
If you&#8217;re like me, then you&#8217;ve had it happen a LOT.<br />
Well guess what?<br />
It&#8217;s only NATURAL when this happens&#8230;<br />
That&#8217;s right, I said NATURAL.<br />
When you do these things, you send a clear message:<br />
&#8220;I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ll like me for who I am, so I&#8217;m going to try to buy your  attention and affection&#8221;.<br />
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for  insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That&#8217;s right, I said that women  see this as MANIPULATION.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her </strong></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing  how they &#8220;feel&#8221; too early on.<br />
Attractive women are rare.<br />
And they get a LOT of attention from men.<br />
Most men don&#8217;t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one  way or another ALL THE<br />
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are  interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of  times per month.<br />
And guess what?<br />
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.<br />
That&#8217;s right. They have EXPERIENCE.<br />
They know what to expect.<br />
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away  faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying &#8220;You know, I really,  REALLY like you&#8221; after one or two dates.<br />
This signals to the woman that you&#8217;re just like all the other guys who fall for  her too fast&#8230; and can&#8217;t control themselves.<br />
Don&#8217;t do it. Lean back. Relax.<br />
There&#8217;s a much better way&#8230;</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.<br />
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.<br />
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual  attraction.<br />
But does the same apply for women?<br />
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something  else going on?<br />
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you  that women usually have their &#8220;attraction mechanisms&#8221; triggered by things OTHER  than looks.<br />
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with  beautiful women than the other way around?<br />
Think about it.<br />
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men&#8230; and they&#8217;re attracted to  the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.<br />
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can  make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel  when you see a hot, sexy young woman.<br />
But it&#8217;s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.<br />
And ANY guy can learn how&#8230;</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks </span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they&#8217;ve even  gotten started&#8230; because they think that attractive women are only interested  in men who have looks and money&#8230; or guys who are a certain height&#8230; or guys  who are a certain age.<br />
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.<br />
But MOST women are far more interested in a man&#8217;s personality than his wallet or  his looks.<br />
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet&#8230;<br />
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these  guys.<br />
YOU DO NOT have to &#8220;settle&#8221; for a woman just because you aren&#8217;t rich, tall, or  handsome.<br />
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and  communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful  sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Earlier I mentioned that it&#8217;s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or  permission.<br />
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER  to women.<br />
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman  wants.<br />
Another bad idea&#8230;<br />
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over&#8230; Women aren&#8217;t  attracted to Wussies!</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Now I&#8217;m going to blow your mind&#8230;<br />
A woman ALWAYS knows what you&#8217;re thinking.<br />
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.  That&#8217;s ten TIMES.<br />
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you&#8217;re out on a date  with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.<br />
And if you don&#8217;t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you  just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won&#8217;t help!<br />
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating&#8230;<br />
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting  physical&#8230; everything.<br />
If you don&#8217;t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up&#8230;  and LOSE EVERYTHING.<br />
And you KNOW it.<br />
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the  next with a woman&#8230; from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP</strong></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This is the biggest mistake of all.<br />
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success  with women that they truly want.<br />
I know, guys don&#8217;t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don&#8217;t like  to ask for help.<br />
Hey, I&#8217;ve been there myself.<br />
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful  with women&#8230;<br />
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn&#8217;t know how to  approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.<br />
It frustrated the hell out of me.<br />
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I  just couldn&#8217;t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night&#8230;  right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be  successful with women and dating.<br />
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally  figured it all out.<br />
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly.  I&#8217;ve dated models, I&#8217;ve dated actresses, and I&#8217;ve dated nice, normal, regular  girls as well.<br />
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure  feeling&#8230; like I don&#8217;t know how to meet women&#8230; and I might wind up alone.<br />
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.<br />
I&#8217;ve written a book on the topic, and I&#8217;ve done seminars on both coasts of the  United States&#8230; and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.</span></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking  alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.</span></strong></p>
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<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it  is to find good men to date&#8230;<br />
Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in general&#8230;<br />
&#8230;And wind up with a detailed list of all the traits guys have that are  ANNOYING AS HELL.<br />
The reality is that single women have an entire laundry list of traits,  qualities, and characteristics that they HATE in single guys.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Did you know this?<br />
I didn&#8217;t think so.</span><br />
Well, the truth is that up until a few years ago, I didn&#8217;t know this either.</p>
<p>So take heart in the idea that you&#8217;re about to learn something that most men on  this planet will DIE not knowing.<br />
My hope is that what I&#8217;m about to share with you will change how you interact  with women FOREVER&#8230; and help you meet and date more of the kinds of women  you&#8217;re interested in.<br />
Onward.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">FRIENDSHIPS AND ROMANCE</span></strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">For women, friendships and romantic relationships are two separate things. They  are NOT the same.<br />
One can lead to another, but it&#8217;s RARE when it happens.<br />
Remember that.<br />
One CAN lead to another, but it&#8217;s RARE.<br />
&#8220;Romantic&#8221; relationships are very different from &#8220;friend&#8221; relationships.<br />
While most men would sleep with most of their female &#8220;friends&#8221; if the woman  &#8220;came on&#8221; to them, most women would NOT sleep with most men that they consider  &#8220;just friends&#8221;.</span></p>
<p>But why is this? How do women differentiate between &#8220;just friends&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;ll be  intimate with you&#8221;? <strong>And why is it so hard to become &#8220;more than friends&#8221; with a  woman you&#8217;ve been &#8220;just friends&#8221; with for a long time?</strong></p>
<p>The answer to this riddle is very interesting to me.<br />
I believe that the answer comes down to understanding HOW women &#8220;know&#8221; when they  want to &#8220;be intimate&#8221; with a man&#8230; and, even MORE importantly, understanding  how women &#8220;know&#8221; when they DON&#8217;T want to &#8220;be intimate&#8221; with a man&#8230;<br />
<strong>The thing that tells a woman whether the guy she&#8217;s with is &#8220;friend&#8221; material or  &#8220;lover&#8221; material is how she FEELS.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a combination of EMOTIONAL feelings and PHYSICAL feelings.<br />
<strong>It is NOT logic.</strong><br />
She might USE logic to &#8220;rationalize&#8221; her decision&#8230; or she might USE logic to  SOUND like she has a good reason for either &#8220;being with&#8221; or &#8220;not being with&#8221; a  particular guy.</p>
<p>But don&#8217;t let that distract you. Logic isn&#8217;t important AT ALL in this context.  So let me say this another way.<br />
A woman FEELS something emotionally and/or physically, then she uses those  FEELINGS as the basis for her &#8220;decisions&#8221; and actions with a particular guy.<br />
If she feels that &#8220;Ewwww Yuck!&#8221; feeling, then her &#8220;logical&#8221; conclusion will  probably not be that she wants to date the guy in question.<br />
If she feels that &#8220;It&#8217;s Gettin&#8217; Hot In Here&#8221; feeling, then her &#8220;logical&#8221;  conclusion will probably be that this guy is interesting and attractive, and a  good &#8220;choice&#8221; to date. At this point she&#8217;ll take ACTION on her feelings and  thoughts&#8230;<br />
It goes like this:<br />
FEEL&#8212;&gt;THINK&#8212;&gt;ACT<br />
First the FEELING, then the THOUGHT&#8230; and THEN the action.</p>
<p><strong>Now, with this in mind, let me ask you an important question:</strong><br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;">How do most guys behave around women that they&#8217;re &#8220;romantically&#8221; interested in?</span></p>
<p>And another:<br />
What do they do to get the woman that&#8217;s the object of their desires to be with  them?<br />
Take a few minutes to think about this. Make a list if you have paper and pen  handy.<br />
I&#8217;m serious. I&#8217;ll wait.<br />
Come back when you&#8217;re finished.</p>
<p>Now take a look at your list. I&#8217;ll bet that almost every single thing on your  list was something &#8220;external&#8221;.<br />
In other words, your list probably contains things like &#8220;Take her to dinner&#8221; and  &#8220;Give her compliments&#8221; and &#8220;Buy her flowers&#8221; and &#8220;Call her often&#8221;.</p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">These are all things that demonstrate that he&#8217;s INTERESTED.<br />
They are NOT things that trigger those emotional and physical feelings inside of  a woman that tell her that THIS IS THE GUY.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">In other words, men try to use &#8220;props&#8221; to LET A WOMAN KNOW HE&#8217;S INTERESTED&#8230;<br />
&#8230;HOPING that when the woman sees these displays she&#8217;ll be interested in him.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Almost NONE of the things men do to court women make women FEEL ANYTHING even  remotely similar to &#8220;Attraction&#8221; and &#8220;Arousal&#8221;.<br />
Of course, you know this.</span></p>
<p>You&#8217;ve probably done this stuff about a bazillion times. I have, too. I know  what it&#8217;s like to try OVER AND OVER to let a particular woman know that I&#8217;m  interested&#8230; only to have her NOT RESPOND in a &#8220;romantic&#8221; way.</p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">The PROBLEM with this kind of thing is that it makes TWO HUGE MISTAKES at once.</span></span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">First, it&#8217;s just the plain-old wrong way to go. Telling or showing a woman that  you &#8220;like her&#8221; has no effect on how she feels about YOU.<br />
In the moment it sure seems to make sense&#8230; &#8220;If I show her how I feel, she&#8217;ll  return the feelings&#8221;.</span></p>
<p>Duh.</p>
<p>Like I said, it seems like the right thing to do in the moment (when your inner  little girl has a big fat crush). But it&#8217;s not&#8230; it will have NO effect on her  feelings for you.</p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">And second, it communicates clearly that YOU DON&#8217;T GET IT. It tips a woman off  INSTANTLY that you&#8217;re not hip to what&#8217;s going&#8230; and it kills your chances with her. </span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Say what?</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>You mean that doing nice things for women, and trying to show how you feel can  actually HURT your chances with a woman?</strong><br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;">Yea, it can.</span></span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Look, if you&#8217;ve been dating a woman exclusively for six months, and her birthday  comes&#8230; it&#8217;s OK to buy her a gift and tell her that you like spending time with  her.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">YOU&#8217;RE ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP</span></strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">But if you&#8217;ve known a woman for six DAYS and you try this kind of thing, you&#8217;re  going to shoot yourself in the foot.<br />
Women are EXPERTS at recognizing men who DON&#8217;T GET IT. And if you DON&#8217;T get it,  PLUS you&#8217;re trying to compensate for the fact that<br />
you don&#8217;t get it with gifts and compliments, then you&#8217;re REALLY screwed (or not  screwed, as the case may be).<br />
Remember what I&#8217;m about to tell you.<br />
Burn it into your mind.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Write it on a sticky-note and put it on your computer monitor&#8230;</span><br />
<strong>SINGLE, ATTRACTIVE WOMEN WATCH MEN TRY TO WIN THEM OVER ALL DAY LONG. THEY KNOW  WHEN A GUY DOESN&#8217;T &#8220;GET IT&#8221;&#8230; AND<br />
THEY&#8217;RE ANNOYED WHEN A GUY WHO DOESN&#8217;T &#8220;GET IT&#8221; JUST KEEPS TRYING AND TRYING AND  TRYING.</strong></span></p>
<p>Keep in mind that single, attractive women watch guys do this stuff 24/7. They  shake their pretty heads and say &#8220;He doesn&#8217;t get it&#8230; He doesn&#8217;t get it&#8230; He  doesn&#8217;t get it&#8221; over and over and over.<br />
The point is that if you DON&#8217;T GET IT, then nothing you do is going to work for  you.<br />
The problem is bigger than you can imagine, and you&#8217;re going to need to take a  totally different road to get where you&#8217;re going&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">WHAT ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HATE MOST ABOUT SINGLE GUYS</span></strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Let&#8217;s return to where we started.<br />
There are a few particular things that REALLY annoy single, attractive women.</span></p>
<p align="left"><strong><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">One of the reasons that these things annoy women is because they&#8217;re DEAL  KILLERS.</span></strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">A woman can like everything about you, but if you do these things (or even ONE  of these things), it can DESTROY your chances of success with a particular  woman.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Here are a few of the BIG things that single women hate:</strong><br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em>1) Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval</em></span><br />
If I had to describe the one single thing that both annoys women and DESTROYS a  guy&#8217;s chances, it would be this.<br />
It has taken me a long time to see this particular pattern, but it&#8217;s EVERYWHERE.<br />
Men, in effect, say &#8220;Hi, I want your approval and attention. I&#8217;m willing to let  YOU be the one who&#8217;s in control&#8230; and let YOU call the shots&#8230; and do anything  to please YOU&#8230; if you&#8217;ll give me your attention and<br />
approval&#8221;.<br />
But the problem is that women DON&#8217;T WANT you to give up your status and  &#8220;manliness&#8221;.<br />
Women aren&#8217;t ATTRACTED to men who act weak and tentative.<br />
Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he&#8217;ll give  away his power in return for approval.<br />
THEY HATE IT!<br />
I could literally write an entire book on this one single concept.<br />
Take a few minutes to think this one over, and maybe write down the ways that  you make this mistake with women.<br />
More importantly, think about how you&#8217;re going to STOP DOING IT IMMEDIATELY.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em>2) Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure</em></span><br />
When one person &#8220;clings&#8221; to another person &#8220;psychologically&#8221;, the person who is  being &#8220;clinged to&#8221; RESENTS and REJECTS the needy,<br />
clingy emotional parasite&#8230;<br />
This is WUSS behavior at its worst.<br />
If a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met, and she says &#8220;Hey, I have to  go&#8221;, he might say &#8220;Aw, well&#8230; um&#8230; OK. Um, will you call me when you get  home?&#8221;.<br />
Or let&#8217;s say a guy and a girl are out on their first date, and they&#8217;re walking  around in a large department store.<br />
Most guys will follow the woman everywhere, and not leave her side for a minute.<br />
If she wanders away, he&#8217;ll come find her IMMEDIATELY.<br />
He&#8217;ll stay physically close to her, as if he&#8217;s afraid she&#8217;ll leave without him.<br />
And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he  actually ASKS a woman to tell him that he&#8217;s nice, fun, interesting, etc.<br />
&#8220;Do you think I&#8217;m interesting?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Do you think we could ever have a relationship?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Am I your type?&#8221;<br />
Women HATE this stuff. It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies. It makes  them want to RUN AWAY.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em>3) Not Leading &#8211; And Even Worse, Trying To Get Her To Lead</em></span><br />
Women have WUSS-DAR.<br />
One of the things that triggers a woman&#8217;s WUSS-DAR is a man who FOLLOWS.<br />
The REAL problem is that most women won&#8217;t try to LEAD naturally.<br />
So you&#8217;ve got a situation where a man is trying to FOLLOW a woman who isn&#8217;t  LEADING.<br />
He&#8217;s looking for little cues so he knows where to go and what to do&#8230; but he  isn&#8217;t getting them.<br />
So what does he do?<br />
He ASKS for them!<br />
He says &#8220;So, I was thinking of maybe taking you to Olive Garden for dinner&#8230;  how does that sound?&#8221;.<br />
Everything about the way he asks says to the woman &#8220;I&#8217;m trying to figure out  what you want me to do&#8230; please help me know how you want me to act, where you  want me to take you, and what you want me to say&#8221;.<br />
This is ATTRACTION DEATH!<br />
men who don&#8217;t lead, and even worse, try to get a woman to lead, ANNOY THE HELL  OUT OF SINGLE WOMEN.<br />
They HATE IT!</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em>4) Using Insecure, Approval-Seeking, Low-Status Posture, Gestures, Voice  Tone, And Body Language</em></span><br />
There&#8217;s a term that single, attractive, in-demand women use to describe men who  use weak, approval-seeking posture, gestures,<br />
comments, and mannerisms&#8230;<br />
The term is &#8220;NICE&#8221;.<br />
&#8220;He&#8217;s nice&#8230; but&#8230; there&#8217;s no chemistry.&#8221;<br />
This is one of those areas that&#8217;s not easy to talk about.<br />
Since SO DAMN MANY GUYS do this stuff, it&#8217;s almost impossible to explain.<br />
It&#8217;s like trying to tell a fish that they&#8217;re not going to get anywhere in life  if they stay wet.<br />
The fish doesn&#8217;t even KNOW it&#8217;s wet in the first place.<br />
But let me try.<br />
This is important. Go spend a day observing couples. Go places where couples  that have just met spend time together.<br />
Bars, clubs, coffee shops, whatever.<br />
Now watch the GUYS.<br />
Watch how they lean towards the women. Watch how they raise their eyebrows in  exaggerated response to women&#8217;s comments. Watch how they slump over, let their  shoulders fall forward, and smile fake-ly at whatever the women say.<br />
If you&#8217;re close enough, listen to how men ask questions and make comments with a  voice tone that says &#8220;I&#8217;m insecure and I&#8217;m trying<br />
to be extra nice to compensate for it&#8221;.<br />
You&#8217;ll see it EVERYWHERE.<br />
In fact, you&#8217;ll see it so much that you&#8217;ll probably write me back to tell me  that I&#8217;m the one who&#8217;s crazy, and that since it happens so much, it must be &#8220;the  right way&#8221;.<br />
Well, it&#8217;s not.<br />
If there&#8217;s one thing that triggers an attractive single woman&#8217;s WUSS-DAR, it&#8217;s a  man&#8217;s posture, gestures, eye contact, voice tone, etc.<br />
It all happens in an INSTANT.<br />
Women read this stuff and interpret it as instantly and accurately as you read  and interpret the cover of Playboy.<br />
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</span> <strong><span style="color: #000080;">NO ANALYSIS NECESSARY</span></strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">I&#8217;d say that probably 90% of all men alive today INSTANTLY disqualify themselves  with women because of this problem.<br />
Their voice tone, gestures, posture, etc. TELEGRAPH the message that they&#8217;re a  WUSS.<br />
They do a thousand weird little things to let a woman know that they&#8217;re  uncomfortable and &#8220;not being themselves&#8221;.<br />
And you guessed it&#8230;<br />
Single women HATE IT!</span></p>
<p><em><span style="color: #ff0000;">5) Not Understanding That She&#8217;s A Woman And You&#8217;re A Man</span><br />
</em>I&#8217;m about to get philosophical on your ass, so be cool. When it comes down  to it, most men don&#8217;t understand women. But the REAL kicker is that most men  don&#8217;t understand MEN, either!<br />
Most guys don&#8217;t know what it&#8217;s like to get in touch with their MALE NATURE.<br />
Combine these two issues, and you get a guy who behaves in ways that DO NOT  trigger ATTRACTION in women.<br />
Women have a &#8220;nature&#8221;. A female nature. Men also have a &#8220;nature&#8221;. You guessed  it, it&#8217;s a MALE nature.<br />
Women are coy. They like to play hard to get. They like to enjoy the chase. They  love anticipation. They love to &#8220;let a guy catch them&#8221;&#8230;<br />
Men are competitive. Men are dominant. Men like to play rough games, win things,  and rule their territory.<br />
Well guess what?<br />
Most men don&#8217;t BEHAVE like men when they&#8217;re in the presence of a woman that they  &#8220;like&#8221;.<br />
And since most men don&#8217;t understand female human nature, they don&#8217;t demonstrate  that they &#8220;get it&#8221; when they&#8217;re with women that they &#8220;like&#8221;.<br />
Women like men. Men like women. There are POWERFUL causes at play here.<br />
When you&#8217;re around a woman you like, don&#8217;t act like a GIRLY-MAN. It&#8217;s not sexy,  and it&#8217;s not attractive&#8230;<br />
And single women HATE IT!</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em>6) Not Being Interesting To Be Around</em></span><br />
Underneath most behavior that I see most guys acting out is a &#8220;core belief&#8221; that  goes like this:<br />
&#8220;I don&#8217;t believe that an attractive woman would want to be around me just  because she enjoys my presence&#8230; so I make up for it by saying and doing  certain things that I hope she&#8217;ll enjoy&#8230; and if she enjoys those<br />
other things enough, then maybe she&#8217;ll want to spend more time with me.&#8221;<br />
Heavy, man.<br />
Well guess what? Most attractive single women KNOW that if a guy isn&#8217;t  interesting to be around, they she&#8217;s eventually going to go CRAZY being around  him.</p>
<p>In other words, no amount of material gifts, compliments, dinners, and other  &#8220;displays&#8221; will EVER compensate for a lack of BEING INTERESTING.<br />
Here&#8217;s a profound thought:<br />
I and several other guys I know have many women who call us often&#8230; just  because they enjoy being around us.<br />
These women would be happy just to be in the same room with us&#8230; and enjoy our  company.<br />
And yes, these women CALL US.<br />
Often.<br />
Material gifts, food, flowers, and other &#8220;displays&#8221; have ZERO lasting value to a  woman when it comes to how she FEELS about you&#8230;<br />
An attractive single woman wants a guy who LIGHTS HER UP. She wants to FEEL  GOOD. She wants mystery&#8230; she wants to laugh&#8230; she wants a challenge&#8230; she  wants sexual tension&#8230;<br />
If you&#8217;re using compliments, gifts, food, and other &#8220;displays&#8221; to get a woman&#8217;s  attention&#8230; you need to ask yourself a tough question:<br />
Is it because you don&#8217;t believe that a woman would want to be around you just to  be around you?<br />
Because if you don&#8217;t know how to be INTERESTING to a woman, then no amount of  compensation is going to fix the problem.<br />
If you&#8217;re boring, predictable, and uninteresting, then you&#8217;re never going to  have women calling YOU to hang out.<br />
Oh, and women HATE IT.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em>7) Not Understanding Attraction</em></span><br />
This is a BIGGIE.<br />
You hear me talking about it all the time, right? Maybe now that you&#8217;ve read  this newsletter you&#8217;ll have a better context to understand what I&#8217;m about to  tell you&#8230;<br />
If you &#8220;get it&#8221; with women, it&#8217;s SUPER INTERESTING and ATTRACTIVE to them.<br />
Women can INSTANTLY FEEL IT when they&#8217;re with a guy who &#8220;gets it&#8221;.</p>
<p>Women know very quickly if they&#8217;re talking to a guy who understands himself and  women&#8230; and who enjoys creating and building sexual tension.<br />
Women know if a guy speaks the SECRET LANGUAGE of &#8220;Sexual Communication&#8221;.<br />
If he doesn&#8217;t, then she stops all communication on that level. If he does, then  it continues. ATTRACTION Isn&#8217;t A Choice.<br />
Attraction is an emotional and physical RESPONSE&#8230; and you can&#8217;t &#8220;convince&#8221; a  woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS.<br />
Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction  works&#8230; and who knows what to do in each specific<br />
situation to progress to the next level.<br />
The PROBLEM with ATTRACTION, and with success with women in general is that the  things you need to DO to be successful are NOT<br />
OBVIOUS.<br />
They&#8217;re &#8220;counter intuitive&#8221;, in many cases.</p>
<p>In other words, they&#8217;re the OPPOSITE of what you&#8217;d THINK would make sense. You  have to do things like CREATE TENSION&#8230; stop doing something that she likes&#8230;  give her time to miss you&#8230; etc.<br />
And if you don&#8217;t understand ATTRACTION, a woman is going to KNOW IT.<br />
And guess what?<br />
Single women HATE IT when a man doesn&#8217;t understand ATTRACTION and how to  communicate on this &#8220;other level&#8221;.<br />
Now that I&#8217;ve shared the mistakes, you need the next piece of the puzzle. You  need to get an education on how attraction works for women&#8230; and the RIGHT  things to do up front to give her those emotional/physical feelings inside.</p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Right now you&#8217;re probably feeling that excited &#8220;Ah Ha!&#8221; feeling.  That&#8217;s because you understand something at a different level&#8230; you&#8217;ve used your  mind to understand something complex&#8230; and you feel good about bettering  yourself.<br />
Well this is just the TIP of the iceberg.<br />
As educational as this has been, this is only the beginning.<br />
If you&#8217;re starting to realize how important it is to get this area of your life  handled, then I recommend you make a commitment and take your education to a  WORLD CLASS level.<br />
And what&#8217;s the best way to do that?<br />
Well, I&#8217;ve spent the last several years of my life figuring out exactly what  does and doesn&#8217;t work with women.<br />
I figured this stuff out for MYSELF&#8230; and then I took what I&#8217;ve learned and put  it all together to help others learn as well.<br />
My Double Your Dating eBook represents THOUSANDS of hours of research, testing,  getting to know guys who were successful with women, and generally organizing  every level of this knowledge into an easy-to-understand system that ANY guy can  use to increase his success with women and dating.<br />
And I&#8217;ll tell you something&#8230;<br />
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