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		<title>One thing every woman knows about you</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 10:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Control your fear of rejection, control all the women.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The one thing that every woman</strong> knows about you is that YOU are afraid of REJECTION.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s right. Every woman you approach, talk to, smile at, even just glimpse in passing, they all know that with a subtle word or smile, or look, she can turn you inside out.</p>
<p>BUT when you can be The Man and not show this fear every guy has, this fear of rejection, then you will hav econtrol over her. And you will be the leader of all of her emotional interest and attraction in you.</p>
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		<title>The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 18:35:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; color: #000080; font-size: medium;"><strong>“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU  Probably  Make With Women—  And What To Do About It&#8230;”</strong></span></p>
<p align="center"><strong> <span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"> And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes&#8230;</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong> <span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”</span></strong></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be  attracted &#8220;nice&#8221; guys?<br />
Of course you have.<br />
Just like me, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve had attractive female friends that always seemed  to date &#8220;jerks&#8221;&#8230; but for some reason they were never romantically interested  in YOU.<br />
What&#8217;s going on here?<br />
It&#8217;s actually very simple&#8230;<br />
<strong>Women don&#8217;t base their choices of men on how &#8220;nice&#8221; a guy is.</strong> They choose the  men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.<br />
And guess what?<br />
Being nice doesn&#8217;t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.<br />
And being NICE doesn&#8217;t make a woman CHOOSE you.<br />
I realize that this doesn&#8217;t make a lot of logical sense, and it&#8217;s hard to  ACCEPT&#8230; but GET OVER IT.<br />
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you&#8217;ll NEVER have the success  with women that you want.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You&#8221;</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like&#8230; but she&#8217;s  just notinterested?<br />
Right! They try to &#8220;convince&#8221; the woman to feel differently.<br />
Well, I have news for you&#8230; YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN &#8220;FEELS&#8221; WHEN IT  COMES TO ATTRACTION!<br />
Never, ever, EVER.<br />
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with &#8220;logic and  reasoning&#8221;.<br />
Think about it.<br />
If a woman doesn&#8217;t &#8220;feel it&#8221; for you, how in the world do you expect to change  that FEELING by being &#8220;reasonable&#8221; with her?<br />
But we all do it.<br />
When a woman just isn&#8217;t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to  change her mind.<br />
Bad idea. One that will never work.</span></p>
<p><strong> <span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like  us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman&#8217;s &#8220;approval&#8221; or  &#8220;permission&#8221;.<br />
Another HORRIBLE idea.<br />
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them&#8230; EVER.<br />
Don&#8217;t get me wrong here.<br />
You don&#8217;t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.<br />
But if you think that treating a woman well means &#8220;always getting her approval  and permission for things&#8221;, think again.<br />
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at  men who seek their approval.<br />
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and  want her approval annoy her&#8230;</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and  flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn&#8217;t treat her even HALF as  well as you did?<br />
If you&#8217;re like me, then you&#8217;ve had it happen a LOT.<br />
Well guess what?<br />
It&#8217;s only NATURAL when this happens&#8230;<br />
That&#8217;s right, I said NATURAL.<br />
When you do these things, you send a clear message:<br />
&#8220;I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ll like me for who I am, so I&#8217;m going to try to buy your  attention and affection&#8221;.<br />
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for  insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That&#8217;s right, I said that women  see this as MANIPULATION.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her </strong></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing  how they &#8220;feel&#8221; too early on.<br />
Attractive women are rare.<br />
And they get a LOT of attention from men.<br />
Most men don&#8217;t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one  way or another ALL THE<br />
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are  interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of  times per month.<br />
And guess what?<br />
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.<br />
That&#8217;s right. They have EXPERIENCE.<br />
They know what to expect.<br />
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away  faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying &#8220;You know, I really,  REALLY like you&#8221; after one or two dates.<br />
This signals to the woman that you&#8217;re just like all the other guys who fall for  her too fast&#8230; and can&#8217;t control themselves.<br />
Don&#8217;t do it. Lean back. Relax.<br />
There&#8217;s a much better way&#8230;</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.<br />
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.<br />
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual  attraction.<br />
But does the same apply for women?<br />
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something  else going on?<br />
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you  that women usually have their &#8220;attraction mechanisms&#8221; triggered by things OTHER  than looks.<br />
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with  beautiful women than the other way around?<br />
Think about it.<br />
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men&#8230; and they&#8217;re attracted to  the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.<br />
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can  make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel  when you see a hot, sexy young woman.<br />
But it&#8217;s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.<br />
And ANY guy can learn how&#8230;</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks </span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they&#8217;ve even  gotten started&#8230; because they think that attractive women are only interested  in men who have looks and money&#8230; or guys who are a certain height&#8230; or guys  who are a certain age.<br />
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.<br />
But MOST women are far more interested in a man&#8217;s personality than his wallet or  his looks.<br />
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet&#8230;<br />
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these  guys.<br />
YOU DO NOT have to &#8220;settle&#8221; for a woman just because you aren&#8217;t rich, tall, or  handsome.<br />
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and  communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful  sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Earlier I mentioned that it&#8217;s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or  permission.<br />
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER  to women.<br />
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman  wants.<br />
Another bad idea&#8230;<br />
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over&#8230; Women aren&#8217;t  attracted to Wussies!</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women</span></strong></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Now I&#8217;m going to blow your mind&#8230;<br />
A woman ALWAYS knows what you&#8217;re thinking.<br />
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.  That&#8217;s ten TIMES.<br />
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you&#8217;re out on a date  with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.<br />
And if you don&#8217;t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you  just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won&#8217;t help!<br />
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating&#8230;<br />
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting  physical&#8230; everything.<br />
If you don&#8217;t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up&#8230;  and LOSE EVERYTHING.<br />
And you KNOW it.<br />
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the  next with a woman&#8230; from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP</strong></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This is the biggest mistake of all.<br />
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success  with women that they truly want.<br />
I know, guys don&#8217;t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don&#8217;t like  to ask for help.<br />
Hey, I&#8217;ve been there myself.<br />
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful  with women&#8230;<br />
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn&#8217;t know how to  approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.<br />
It frustrated the hell out of me.<br />
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I  just couldn&#8217;t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night&#8230;  right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be  successful with women and dating.<br />
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally  figured it all out.<br />
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly.  I&#8217;ve dated models, I&#8217;ve dated actresses, and I&#8217;ve dated nice, normal, regular  girls as well.<br />
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure  feeling&#8230; like I don&#8217;t know how to meet women&#8230; and I might wind up alone.<br />
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.<br />
I&#8217;ve written a book on the topic, and I&#8217;ve done seminars on both coasts of the  United States&#8230; and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.</span></p>
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