Dating Success Without Conversation Stress

Stop worrying about starting or keeping conversations going.

Just walk up to women, get their phone numbers, and then get together with them later for a cup of tea.

No ‘starting of conversations’ required.

You’ll do fine… don’t worry about ‘conversations’.

And if you do wind up in a conversation, just start out by talking about normal things, then transition into the Cocky and Funny material as you progress.

You’ll find your success in getting dates dramatically increases and improves.

I recommend that you stop thinking about ‘bagging’ and ‘closing the deal’ and start thinking about how you can make her feel attraction.

If a woman feels attraction for you, then the ‘bagging’ will take care of itself. Are you with me here?

Also, stop focusing too much energy on one woman.

If you’re just dating women right now, never put too much importance on one woman… Especially one that you’ve never even talked to.

Meet other women.

Go out. And get your mind of off ‘closing’ and ‘bagging’. That’s needy, user talk.

If you don’t take things to a physical level quickly after creating sexual tension, it will eventually go away, and you’ll be left with just “friend” material.

If you don’t make any “moves”, don’t try to kiss her, and don’t confidently lead in a physical way, a woman will only think of you as a “friend”.

Even if there is attraction based on personality, it’s going to disappear if you don’t cross over into the physical realm. 98% of the time, she’s NOT going to be the one to make the first moves… it’s just not going to happen.

YOU have to do it.

Women are very adaptable, and if you take things too far, just remember to diffuse the situation quickly and learn from it.

Once she sees that you were just using your cocky attitude on her, she’ll most likely bounce right back.

Unfortunately, too many guys will turn into insta-wuss and start apologizing for what they said.

Don’t do that!

Continue on, just back off a bit of the hardness of your talk.

She’ll stay with you.

I recommend that you DO NOT do something expensive and typical like going and picking a woman up, taking her to dinner, etc. for a first date.

Instead, either:

1) Have her come to your place, and leave for a cup of tea from there.

2) Meet her at a coffee shop that’s CLOSE to your place, and if she flakes out, you can still enjoy yourself and you’re not far from home.

Another rule of thumb I have is to not make a date too far in advance.

I’ve found that often times, you can call a woman up and say “Let’s go get a cup of coffee RIGHT NOW”.

It’s rare that I would ever make plans more than a day in advance… this also helps prevent flaking out and canceling your date.

Remember, a woman wants to feel secure that you’re not just “pretending” to be a cool, calm, cocky, funny, in-control guy.

This is why you’ll get tested in many, many ways… at many different times.

Just keep being confident and a MAN, and stop asking questions like “Should I give her a hard time about grilling me when my defences were down”.

That’s Wuss talk.

If you’ve done enough of the RIGHT things, you can slip a few times and do a few wrong things.

Just don’t make a habit of it, because she’ll be gone in a flash.

And by the way, DON’T BE BORING!

It is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.

Give women room.

Don’t see a new woman more than once or twice a week for the first several weeks (Especially if she’s unusually attractive).

By limiting the contact you have you can easily create more interest in her than if you’re always available.

Guys that never seem to go away are rarely able to continue dating beyond the first few dates because they come across as needy and wussified.

Women appreciate men more if the guy can’t be pigeon-holed into a category.

Women don’t feel ATTRACTION for a guy that they can easily control.

It just doesn’t happen.

Women aren’t attracted to wussies.

When you are first dating, or about to start dating, be sure to have a plan, an attitude and enough confidence to carry you through the beginning stages of dating.