Use What Works For You

First of all, being Cocky and Funny isn’t a super-secret, covert manipulation tactic.

It’s a way of flirting, teasing, and interacting with women that they enjoy.

Second, I’ve found that the only women who DON’T respond well to it are women who are UPTIGHT, women who aren’t at all interested, or overly SHY women who are intimidated (in which case you can usually just tone it down and have fun with them too).

That’s my personal experience. Smart, nerdy girls like the ones you’re attracted to (I’m happy you have that market cornered, by the way) should LOVE to spar with you and will probably LOVE your Cocky and Funny attitude. Keep it intellectual.

There will ALWAYS be situations in life when things don’t work for you. Tiger Woods had a rough winter, but he’s fighting back to retrieve what he threw away. He still screws up a lot of shots, and he’s trying to still be the best in the world at golf.

We don’t live in an ideal testing lab, we live in reality. Don’t worry about what won’t work, and find what will. You’ll find your groove and be able to move forward with any woman.

The thing to watch for to keep from going too far with the Cocky and Funny attitude and making a woman get VISIBLY ANGRY or she gets to the point where asks you to leave.

If that happens, walk away to recover another day.

When you cross the street you stop and look first, right?

When you talk with a woman do you just go off at the mouth, trying to convince her that you’re a likeable guy?

Running on at the mouth is:
1) Bad because you end up talking about nonsense;
2) Bad because you don’t take into account what she thinks about what you’re saying;
3) Bad because you don’t give her the “face time” that will make her attracted to you by letting her talk.

Don’t act like you want her attention. You need to relax.

If you’re having trouble “being yourself” around women then let her be “her self” around you.

You’ll score more points this way and she will be more attracted to you simply because you listen to her!

You’re going to meet a lot of women. If you want to find the fun ones quickly follow these steps:

Tease her, bust on her, and generally act like you don’t care.

Make a comment about her and walk away.

Be Cocky and Funny when you’re with her, and don’t be boring.

Then, if she’s responding positively (laughing, hitting you, telling you that you’re a pain, etc.), then say “Hey, do you have email?” If she does, have her write it down, then say “Bye”.

It’s a quick push/pull that will get you another time to date her. This is not the intial pickup time, so don’t blow it.

The followup is easily found in the ebook:

Mature, intelligent women love a Cocky and Funny man. Older women can be a lot of fun to date because they know what they want from a guy.

I think you’ll find that sophisticated women are far more receptive to your techniques than younger women. You can be cocky and fun, right?

But be warned.

Older women are more experienced, have been through more games, and know what they want and how to get it. They expect a different type of treatment from a guy they’re with.

You might be writing to me soon to ask why your new girlfriend has you wearing a collar and barking like a dog if you’re not careful.