You want her attraction to be focused on you the moment she sees you.

Smile, then invite her over to chat a bit with you, so you can introduce yourself. Encourage her to come to you, not you walking over to her. Motion with your hands, or mouth the words “Hello” and nod with your head that she should join you.

That’s very important because when a woman is standing somewhere there are two things she wants to do, stay or move. Staying is always a bad option she might pick that forces you to go to her. Bad.

We want her to come to you, move out of the little “safe zone” she may have created, and be just a little more vulnerable (maybe) and intrigued by you.

This “come to me” technique can be used anywhere and usually breaks down any instant barriers she may feel about you because of her instant interest in what you have to say.

Start with your name, “Hi I am Rob” and ask what her name is. If you have an open hand put it out to shake her hand then say “You looked bored, can I help to entertain you for a few moments?”

Now you can tell a joke and ask her questions about herself, what she does for a living, how does she like living where she does, etc. The idea here is to encourage her to talk about herself.

Don’t take up too much of her time (maybe walk her back to where she was standing before) and get her phone number or email address.

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Being prepared ith a few stock ideas that can be quickly called upon as an opening line is very important. After all, you can’t use the same line all the time, can you?

Try this: Pick up your drink, walk over to the table, think of the funniest moment of your life so you have a smile on your face, and say “What, are you girls shy or something?” When they say “NO, why?” Answer “Because I’ve been sitting at the next table for at least a half hour and you haven’t come over to say hi to me!” I have about 3 different friends who all use variations of this opening… and it works great (if you’re having fun when you say it).

You need to get over your fear. Once you stop caring what women think of you, then you’ll make a lot more progress.

Use What Works For You

First of all, being Cocky and Funny isn’t a super-secret, covert manipulation tactic.

It’s a way of flirting, teasing, and interacting with women that they enjoy.

Second, I’ve found that the only women who DON’T respond well to it are women who are UPTIGHT, women who aren’t at all interested, or overly SHY women who are intimidated (in which case you can usually just tone it down and have fun with them too).

That’s my personal experience. Smart, nerdy girls like the ones you’re attracted to (I’m happy you have that market cornered, by the way) should LOVE to spar with you and will probably LOVE your Cocky and Funny attitude. Keep it intellectual.

There will ALWAYS be situations in life when things don’t work for you. Tiger Woods had a rough winter, but he’s fighting back to retrieve what he threw away. He still screws up a lot of shots, and he’s trying to still be the best in the world at golf.

We don’t live in an ideal testing lab, we live in reality. Don’t worry about what won’t work, and find what will. You’ll find your groove and be able to move forward with any woman.

The thing to watch for to keep from going too far with the Cocky and Funny attitude and making a woman get VISIBLY ANGRY or she gets to the point where asks you to leave.

If that happens, walk away to recover another day.

When you talk with a woman do you just go off at the mouth, trying to convince her that you’re a likeable guy?

Running on at the mouth is:
1) Bad because you end up talking about nonsense;
2) Bad because you don’t take into account what she thinks about what you’re saying;
3) Bad because you don’t give her the “face time” that will make her attracted to you by letting her talk.

Don’t act like you want her attention. You need to relax.

If you’re having trouble “being yourself” around women then let her be “her self” around you.

You’ll score more points this way and she will be more attracted to you simply because you listen to her!

Tease her, bust on her, and generally act like you don’t care.

Make a comment about her and walk away.

Be Cocky and Funny when you’re with her, and don’t be boring.

Then, if she’s responding positively (laughing, hitting you, telling you that you’re a pain, etc.), then say “Hey, do you have email?” If she does, have her write it down, then say “Bye”.

It’s a quick push/pull that will get you another time to date her. This is not the intial pickup time, so don’t blow it.

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