No two ways about it: ask the average guy what he’s looking for in his “dream woman,” and — if he’s being brutally honest –he’ll put “physical beauty” at the top the list.

But here’s the thing… we all know deep down that extreme “physical beauty” is one quality that — at best — has nothing to do with the success of an exciting, fulfilling, long-term relationship. And, at worst, it often contributes to its failure. We don’t have to be Sherlock Holmes to figure out why…

Sure, “hotness” works to get a man interested in a woman in the first place… even to keep him interested for a while. But the stats don’t lie: years down the road, relationships based on physical attraction do not stand the test of time.

So then. What should a man look for when it comes to finding his “perfect match” for the long term — also known as his true “dream woman”? Here are 3 key steps to finding and keeping her:

STEP #1: SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE

Look. For a man, escaping his narrow, hard-wired thinking about the qualities his ultimate “dream woman” should possess is his greatest obstacle to ever finding her.

His success in meeting his dream woman — and keeping her for the long term — actually lies in seeing a much larger picture. In doing everything he can to attract a woman who contributes and enhances his life in ways that he often can’t see “up front.” (Guys are so hopelessly near-sighted when it comes to our own happiness, we should be born with glasses) .

In more specific terms, every man should envision the kind of woman who can help him achieve (and share) his “dream” life… the life that he’s always imagined for himself. This means choosing a woman equipped with the qualities necessary to love and support him in achieving those dreams, no matter what they may be.

Which leads us directly to:

STEP #2: DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE

This one’s as simple as it sounds… Before you start living your dreams, first you need to know what they are. So get to work… as in right now… clarifying your personal “vision” of an exciting, happy, fulfilling life.

Once you do, guess what… the qualities that your “dream woman” must possess to share and help you achieve those dreams will become immediately obvious.

So go figure yourself out. Are you an outgoing world-traveler with dreams of sailing the world? Or an introverted screenwriter hell-bent to winning an Oscar for best screenplay?

Nail it down in no uncertain terms, because it ain’t rocket science — until you know yourself and what you want, there’s no way to find a woman who’ll love you in amazing, life-changing ways for who you are.

STEP #3: “MATCH UP” WITH YOUR DREAM WOMAN

It’s amazing how many guys kvetch and complain about cold, unsupportive, selfish women in their lives, right? And it’s all because these guys overlook the obvious when it comes to “matching up” with their true “dream woman” in the first place.

In other words, if you’re that outgoing world-traveler with dreams of sailing the world, you must take action to match up with a woman with a genuine sense of spontaneity… a passion for nature… a fearless love of adventure… you name it.

If you’re that introverted writer looking for an Oscar one day, then arrange your life so that you cross paths with women who have a deep appreciation for thoughtful communication… an unwavering support through failure… an intelligent compassion.

Bottom line: When it comes to finding your “dream woman”, first you must honestly, unflinchingly envision the future you really want for yourself. Only then can you go after the tangible qualities in the kind of woman who can help you achieve that future.

Otherwise, sure, a “hot” woman may rock your world for a date or two. But long-term love is sure to fail… until you take steps to help the true woman of your dreams find you.

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Everyone notices the tens.

Every guys eyes bulge when they see a 10. After all, it’s hard to miss a pretty lady unless and your nose doesn’t work because pretty women smell pretty.

The question is, do you have the confidence that most guys lack and that is to walk up to her and say hello or something funny to get her attention. If your initial intention when you see a pretty woman is to automatically bed her then you might as well just stay in your corner and keep on dreaming.

Pretty women get hit on all the time and it’s not enough to think your original because you probably aren’t. And you know that in your heart, and that’s why your dating sucks.

But you can stand out from the crowd, you can make her laugh, at the very least crack a smile.

It’s all about confidence and not worrying about the word “no”.

They say that Albert Einstein was terrible at math in college, so it’s okay for you to be bad love and dating, because we all have to start somewhere.

So next time don’t hesitate, go get her!

…Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her by David DeAngelo

Let me start off by telling you something interesting:

I’ve personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers, I try to get email addresses far more often.

I’ve found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, if I can or it’s all she’ll give me). Let me explain this to you.

I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago. (And I achieved a lot of success by this feat too.)

If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I’m in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this that getting phone numbers alone doesn’t equal success with women.

You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers:
Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them.
Some like to turn guys down.
Some are actually interested.

But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person.

When you call a woman for the first time, she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It’s almost like she’s a different person than the one you met.

I’ve found that getting an email address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses from the women you asked later on. It’s almost as if women appreciate it that you’ve taken the time to think about what you’re going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know.

If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. And I’ve found that emails are answered FAR more often than voicemail messages.

HERE’S THE HOW TO:

After I’ve met and talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I’ll often say something like “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.” They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say “It was nice meeting you too…” Then, just as I’m turning to walk away, and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say “HEY! Do you have email?”

The “HEY!” is a bit surprising, and “Do you have email” is non-threatening. In fact, I’m technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she’ll GIVE IT TO ME.

If she says “yes,” I take out a pen and paper and say “Great, write it down for me” and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE’S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say “Write your number down there too.”

When you ask for email, it’s very low risk for a woman, so she’ll think “Fine, I’ll do that.” Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.

The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they’re in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior.

She’s already mentally said “OK, I’ll give you my email address”… and she’s in the middle of writing it down. When you say “And just write your number down there too” it’s only NATURAL to just write it.

In other words, it’s a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.

Here’s a great add-on to make sure you’re getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail:

As she’s writing down her phone number I say “Is this a number that you actually answer?” If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it’s her “voicemail or pager number,” then I say “Look, write your real number down. It’s going to be OK, I’ll only call you nine times a day…” They laugh and usually give me their real number.

Now, if she answers my first question and says “No, I don’t have email” then I bust on them and say “Well, do you have electricity?” This is a GREAT opportunity to use humor.

Then I say “Well, OK then. I like email better, but I’ll take your regular phone number. It’s so damn hard to reach people on the phone these days.”

Just realize that all you have to do is ask.

Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things.
And I’ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers.
And I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number.
I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding!

Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and over until you know exactly what to say for each step and each response.

Many guys have asked me “But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?” I’ve never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn’t give it to you, then she also knew why you asked.

Just assume that this is the case.

If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm way, you’ll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.

Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it’s small, classy, and women love it!

If you haven’t signed up for my free newsletter, or downloaded your copy of my eBook, just go to this page and download your copy right now (free registration required).
Learn the secrets that thousands of my readers all over the world are using right now to meet women and get more dates.
You’ll learn how to approach women, how to get more dates, places to take women that are fun and FREE instead of paying for expensive dinners, how to get physical with women, and a lot more.
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David DeAngelo is the author of “Double Your Dating – What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.
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I have a question for you…
When you get a woman’s number and you’re picking up the phone to call and “ask her out”, does it bother you?

Do you get freaked out?

Do you start thinking about exactly what you’re going to say, how you’re going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you…
etc.?

Do you ever get NERVOUS when you’re dialing the phone?

You know that feeling when you just start
getting anxious for no logical reason, and you just CAN’T control it?

Have you ever had to actually HANG UP because
you were so damn freaked out… and you just couldn’t follow through with it?

OK, now another set of interesting questions…

Have you ever called a woman, and started talking to her, only to realize that she was in a COMPLETELY different mood from the last time?

Have you ever had a woman “turn cold” on you all of a sudden?

It’s almost like you’re talking to a different person from the girl you met just a day or two before… and it makes no sense to you… right?

And finally…

Have you ever worked up the nerve to call, gotten her on the phone, had a great conversation, but when it came time to ask her out, you froze up because you didn’t know what to say?

Or even worse, have you ever gotten to the end of the conversation and asked her out, only to have her answer with:

“Well, maybe… call me Friday afternoon… OK?”

or…

“Actually, I’m going to be busy all this week, but thanks for asking… (silence)”

…?

Have you ever had one of those conversations where you could just TELL that something wasn’t right… and that she wasn’t going to be taking you up on your date offer, or calling you back at all anytime soon?

So why all the problems?

What is it about this particular few minutes of time that constantly ends in problems for guys?

I personally think that this issue comes down to a few key DEEPER ISSUES.

And I think that if you don’t have these other issues “handled”, you’re going to keep running into problems… and NEVER even know WHY…

…which sucks.

I mean, it’s bad enough to keep having a particular problem and not figure out how to solve it… but the idea that the solution is in doing something you would never think of is a little bit maddening.

In other words, I think that this is all about understanding the problem, and actually PREVENTING it from coming up… rather than trying to “solve it” in the moment.

Let me put it this way…

If you’re dialing the phone, and you’re starting to feel nervous, then it’s already too late to solve the problem.

No quick fix will help you.

Or if you’re on the phone with her and you have just asked her out on a date, and she says “Um, let me call you back in a few days and tell you”… and you start to get that sinking feeling because you know she’s blowing you off… IT’S TOO LATE.

There’s no “magic pill” at this point.

The answer is PREVENTION.

THE MAGIC FORMULA

So let’s take a few minutes and talk about the issues and what CAUSES them.

Here are some of the “root causes”, and how I see them…

1) Having no other options.

If you’re sitting at the phone with ONE phone number in your hand, and you haven’t been out on a date in a long time, and you are feeling DESPERATE, you’re probably going to get VERY nervous.

When you have no other options, the single one in front of you becomes VERY valuable.

Translation: You want it TOO badly.

This AUTOMATICALLY triggers your emotional system, because at some level you realize that if you screw this up, it’s all over. And you know that it’s all going to happen in just an few SECONDS.

The pressure is too much!

2) Putting too much importance on a single girl.

Now, if you have a girl that you’ve been dating for six months, and you’ve decided that she’s one in a million, it makes sense to put a lot of importance on your relationship with her.

But if you don’t know a girl very well, or you haven’t even dated her at all, then you are only setting yourself up for major disappointment by putting too much importance on ANY girl.

3) Thinking you need to IMPRESS her.

This is a HUGE issue.

Most men “unconsciously” behave and communicate like they’re trying to IMPRESS the woman of their desires.

When you think about this, it only makes sense… of course you’d want to impress the woman you like… so she’ll think you’re a cool guy and want to be with you.

But have you ever thought for a moment how an interesting, attractive woman sees it when a guy is TRYING to IMPRESS her?

Well, here’s the INSTANT and UNCONSCIOUS response that women have:

“He’s trying to hard. There’s something wrong. This guy must have something he’s trying to hide… and he must be pretty insecure.”

In other words, the INSTANT you do something or say something that is an obvious attempt at impressing a woman, her radar system screams:

“WUSSY!”

4) Having expectations and being attached to them.

You might think of this one as a variation of “wanting it too much”… only slightly different.

When you start getting your hopes and expectations up, you begin to get ATTACHED to them.

Then you run the risk of HOLDING ON TOO TIGHT to your little fantasy.

Bad idea.

Women don’t date guys who assume too much, act too comfortable, or fall for them too quickly.

Remember, beautiful women have guys falling for them left and right.

In fact, they almost EXPECT guys to go out on one or two dates with them, then say “You know, I really like you…” and other equally predictable sentiments.

Just like being desperate can destroy your chances with a woman, liking a woman too much, too fast, and creating expectations leads to crazy, stupid mistakes as well.

Now, think over what I just said…

I’m basically saying that if you want to cure the problem of freaking out when you call women to ask them out, and the problem of screwing it up when you have that first conversation and ask them out the first time, then you have to go INSIDE first… and do some preventative maintenance on yourself.

And the GOOD NEWS is that this stuff is not only good for you, it also helps you get even MORE dates with interesting women.

So here’s what to do about this particular problem:

1) Get more options.

If you go out one evening with a couple of friends, and you meet a REALLY hot girl… and you wind up having a fun conversation, and getting her number, what should you do?

RIGHT! Go get at least ONE MORE girl’s number. More, if you can.

This way, when you’re picking up the phone to call (or sending out emails, or whatever), you’ve got another woman to call right after her…

In other words, if it doesn’t go well, no big deal. No sweat at all.

Instead of putting all your “hopes” in this one situation, go get more options… this will prevent many problems, as well as giving you more women to date!

And think about it… when are you MOST likely to get a woman’s phone number? When are you the most likely to be in a great mood that actually ATTRACTS women?

Exactly… in the moments after you’ve already gotten another woman’s number.

So take advantage of this time!

2) Dial the phone expecting it to NOT work out with this girl.

I have news for you: Most women have something about their personality, behavior, future plans, etc. that is going to disqualify them from being good “potential mates” for you.

Now, I’m not saying that “all women are screwed up”, etc.

What I AM saying is that you need to realize that the only reason you’re freaking out so much is because your EMOTIONS are running the show.

You need to think about how rare it is that you actually meet a girl that is COMPATIBLE with you… that you’d enjoy spending time with even if she wasn’t good-looking.

If you have this in mind as you’re dialing the phone, you won’t have that “I’m desperate” vibe going on.

You won’t be talking like a guy who has a gun to his head, either… which is a good thing… because women get weirded-out by this kind of thing.

3) Instead of asking a woman out, tell her what you’re doing, and then tell her she can come along if she wants.

Why is “asking a woman out” early on a bad idea? Because if you don’t have a world-class understanding of male/female dynamics, you’re going to come across as a guy who is trying to use food as date-bait.

In other words, if the first thing out of your mouth is “I’d like to take you out to dinner” it’s going to be interpreted as “I don’t think you’re probably going to accept an invitation to spend time with me unless I throw in something extra…”.

Weak.

And that’s how SHE sees it.

The alternative?

Tell her that you’re going to be doing something, and that she should join you.

“Hey, I’m going to go down to Starbucks and get a cup of tea. You should join me. I’m way more fun than whatever else you were going to do… and that’s a fact!”

Extra bonus points:

Hint that she’s missing out if she doesn’t accept immediately.

If she hems and haws, or hesitates… just interrupt and say “Hey, you’re the one who’s missing out”.

I also like “You know, never mind. I guess you don’t like to have fun…”.

Great stuff!

This is solid Cocky & Funny material, and it’s the right time to use it.

You know, I personally used to get VERY freaked out when calling women for the first time on the phone… and “asking them out”.

Now that I understand this particular “moment in time” better, and now that I understand more of the “dynamics” of what’s going on, I get MUCH better results personally…

In fact, I never get “nervous” anymore when calling women, and I rarely if EVER have a woman “flake out” on me.

Now, in this newsletter I’ve shared a few points to help you get better results in this particular area. Use them. They’ll definitely help you.

You should read this newsletter right before you call every one of the next 10 women you meet… in fact.

But as you can probably tell, this is just one of MANY important facets of success with women.

In fact, this is just scratching the surface of the skills you’ll need if you want to have CONSISTENT success with the most DESIRABLE women.

The reality of this situation is that if you want to take control of this area of your life, and not walk helpless with women anymore, you’re going to need to take more steps to get yourself educated on this topic.

And what’s the best way to do that quickly, easily, and without spending years of time and lots of money learning the HARD WAY?

My eBook, Double Your Dating.

It will take you step-by-step through all the key theories, concepts, and techniques you’ll need to start meeting and dating more women starting IMMEDIATELY.

And here’s another interesting benefit that comes from going through my eBook…

It actually CHANGES HOW YOU SEE THE WORLD.

The first time you read it, you’ll be hitting your head saying “Ah ha! Ah ha!” the whole time.

All of those things that have happened to you with women will start to make sense.

All of the times you screwed up will stop bothering you, because you’ll “get” what happened… and all of the times that things worked will also make sense.

Of course, you’ll also be shaking your head as you learn some of the most amazing techniques for approaching women, getting numbers, getting dates, and taking things to a more “physical level” that have ever been created (For example, I share some of my own personal favorite “pick up lines” that work better than anything I’ve ever heard of for approaching women… and I don’t share these anywhere else except my audio and video programs and intensive live seminars).

But one of the REAL benefits comes AFTER you go through it. This is when the real MAGIC starts to happen.

When you’re out at restaurants watching the couple at the next table, you’ll UNDERSTAND what is happening.

When a woman starts doing something subtle that you would have never noticed before, you’ll SEE it… and she’ll SEE that you see it… and you will instantly be talking to her on a DIFFERENT LEVEL… all because you know something that most other guys don’t.

When you encounter “resistance” or “problems” or “tests” from women, you will no longer need to get nervous or upset, because you’ll know what TO DO about it… and when you actually DO the right thing you’ll see that problem disappear.

The point that I’m trying to make is that this education will not only teach you techniques for meeting women, it will also give you a new POWER that you never had before.

I can honestly say to you that if this program were available five or so years ago when I started learning this stuff, I would have gladly traded ANYTHING I owned for it… or paid any amount of money.

But it wasn’t, so I had to take YEARS figuring all of this stuff out for myself.

This eBook is priceless, and it’s worth at least ten times what I sell it for. As you probably know, you can order it WITHOUT RISK as well.

Order and try it out. If you’re not happy, just say “no thanks” and I’ll refund your money. No questions, no hassles.

I’m that confident that it will take your success with women to a whole new level.

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I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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How
To Get A Woman’s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes
Of Meeting Her

By David DeAngelo

Let me start off by telling you something interesting:

I’ve personally stopped focusing on just
getting phone numbers. I’ve found that EMAIL addresses are far better
(I still get the phone number too, of course).

Let me explain.

I perfected the art of getting phone numbers
a couple of years ago.

If a woman is single, I can walk up to her
and get her number in about a minute or two (if I’m in a hurry). I
found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this that
GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT’T EQUAL SUCCESS.

You see, women have many different reasons
for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having
a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually
interested. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my
personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in
person.

When you call a woman for the first time,
she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude.
It’s almost like she’s a different person than the one you met.

I’ve found that getting an EMAIL address is
not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It’s
almost as if women appreciate it that you’ve taken the time to think
about what you’re going to say when you write an email to them, and
they think of you more like someone they know.

The other benefit of email is that it can be
written and answered anytime.

If you call, you have to actually reach them.
But an email can be answered anytime. And I’ve found that emails are
answered FAR more often than voicemail messages.

HERE’S THE HOW TO:

After I’ve talked to a woman for about 3 or 4
minutes, I’ll often say something like “Well, it was nice meeting
you. I’m going to get back to my friends.”

They usually don’t know what to do, as
they’re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say
“It was nice meeting you too…” Then, just as I’m
turning to walk away, and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say
“HEY! Do you have email?”

The “HEY!” is a bit surprising, and
“Do you have email” is non-threatening. In fact, I’m
technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she’ll GIVE IT TO ME.

If she says “yes,” I take out a pen
and paper and say “Great, write it down for me” and I have
her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they
give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve almost ALL
gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE’S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I
say “Write your number down there too.”

When you ask for email, it’s very low risk
for a woman, so she’ll think “Fine, I’ll do that.” Most
women will give out an email address without thinking about it,
because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.

The magic of asking them to write their phone
number down WHILE they’re in the middle of writing down their email is
all about the psychology of human behavior.

She’s already mentally said “OK, I’ll
give you my email address”… and she’s in the middle of writing
it down. When you say “And just write your number down there
too” it’s only NATURAL to just write it.

In other words, it’s a MUCH smaller step than
giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to
figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have
women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.

Here’s a great add-on to make sure you’re
getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail:

As she’s writing down her phone number I say
“Is this a number that you actually answer?” If she looks at
me and hesitates, or says that it’s her “voicemail or pager
number,” then I say “Look, write your real number down. It’s
going to be OK, I’ll only call you nine times a day…” They
laugh and usually give me their real number.

Now, if she answers my first question and
says “No, I don’t have email” then I bust on them and say
“Well, do you have electricity?” This is a GREAT opportunity
to use humor.

Then I say “Well, OK then. I like email
better, but I’ll take your regular phone number. It’s so damn hard to
reach people on the phone these days.”

Just realize that all you have to do is ask.

Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things.
And I’ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact
sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone
number. I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute
or two – no kidding!

Now that you know the sequence, write it down
with the words and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and
over until you know exactly what to say for each step and each
response.

Many guys have asked me “But what do I
tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?” I’ve never
had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why
you asked. If she doesn’t give it to you, then she also knew why you
asked.

Just assume that this is the case.

If you ask every time, and you do it in a
smooth, assuming, calm way, you’ll get a lot of emails and phone
numbers.

Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I
prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it’s small, classy, and
women love it!

If you haven’t signed up for my free
newsletter, or downloaded your copy of my eBook, just go to:

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Free
Dating Tips Newsletter And Download eBook •

…and download your copy right now. Learn the secrets that thousands of
my readers all over the world are using right now to meet women and get
more dates. You’ll learn how to approach women, how to get more dates,
places to take women that are fun and FREE instead of paying for
expensive dinners, how to get physical with women, and a lot more.
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David DeAngelo is the
author of “Double Your Dating – What Every Man Should
Know About How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men
how to be more successful with women and dating.
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Copyright 2008 David DeAngelo Communications Inc., All Rights Reserved. “David DeAngelo” and “Double Your Dating” are trademarks used by David DeAngelo Communications Inc.

Some guys are so desperate for a hookup that they miss when a girl is really into them. Other guys are so desperate for a girlfriend they miss a hookup opportunity.

Now I’m not able to document every encounter with any woman you might ever have but there are consistencies that allow for some general rules to be made and followed.

Some people say that body language is the key to understanding the “woman below the skin” so you can decipher what she may be thinking, but I don’t agree. I believe that it’s what happens from the neck up that will show you not only if you’re going to hookup tonight but also if she’s looking for a relationship that goes beyond the next four hours.

What she is doing to be aware of
- looking at you, not around you
- actively being part of the conversation with you
- quickly looking away or shy when she sees you looking into her eyes
- small laughs that show she agrees with you

When these things are happening so are you… wwhen they’re not, move on before you outstay your welcome and get a reputation as a wussy.

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When you can add some “extra drama” to your approach, you’ll intrigue a woman enough that she’ll actually respond and try to pick you up.

Here’s an example:
When you’ve got her attention playfully ask her if she’s trying to get your number. No matter what she answers then say to her “I get that a lot, but you seemed different than the other girls”.

This almost always works!

Thursday’s Dating Tip

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When you’re sitting there, and she’s over yonder, I want you to pick yourself up and think of nothing but sunshine, warm and cascading over you and her, naked somewhere.

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