Thursday’s Dating Tip

Eye Contact Signals

Eye contact is amazing. Most men can’t keep eye contact with a woman who’s looking right at them.

This “breaking eye contact” signals to a woman that you are NOT secure, confident, and SEXY. You must learn to keep eye contact until SHE breaks it. Next, don’t worry too much about the eye contact.

The guys I know who are best with women approach women that they’re interested in whether they’ve made eye contact or not. It doesn’t matter. Sure, if you DO make eye contact, and she holds it for a little longer than she should, it’s a “move forward” signal… but you have to get over the idea that you NEED eye contact first.

I’ve approached HUNDREDS of women that I DIDN’T make eye contact with… and gotten great results. And when you’re dealing with EXCEPTIONAL women who are VERY attractive, you’ll find that they don’t “look around” as much, because they’re trying to AVOID eye contact with too many men… as they know that this will trigger an endless line of men who are trying to get their attention.

Do what YOU want to do. It’s YOUR reality, remember?

Thursday’s Dating Tip

How To Call A Girl

When you call a girl up and ask “What are you doing?” or “What are you doing later?” or “What are you doing Tuesday night?” you’re basically giving away all of your own power, and setting yourself up.

When a woman hears these words, she instantly realizes that you’re going to ask her out, and that if she has something “better” to do, she should take it.

Much better to say “I’m going to go have dinner later, you should come along” or “I’m thinking of going to X for dinner. I’ll let you join me if you pay…” etc.

I know this is subtle, but it’s important to set up every conversation in a way that doesn’t give away your power and increases her interest in you.

One of the toughest things guys face when picking up women, when looking for the evening’s hookup, is to speedily figure out if she’s interested in hooking up or are you just going to buy her a few drinks and end up looking for someone else in a couple of hours.

So here is a guide for you:

1. She talks a lot… a woman that’s into you will talk to you. If she keeps looking for an escape from your company, gives you a lot of “Yups” and other single word answers to your questions, move on quickly.

2. She says she’s hungry… and wants you to take care of her needs but only right then, right there, she doesn’t want to go elsewhere with you to feed her face, that’s a big ballbuster right there.

3. If you can’t get a number or an email from her within the first ten minutes… watch your back, she might just walk away without telling you. When you can’t get small bits of personal information from her she is not open to talking to you. Move on quickly before you talk yourself into a hole.

4. You get some friend introductions from her: meet her girlfriends is good, meet the guys she’s with is bad.

Thursday’s Dating Tip
She asks: “Are you a player?”
You answer: “Are you trying to hide the fact that YOU are?”

One key in situations like this is to NEVER give a woman a direct answer. Use your Cocky & Funny skills to come up with 5 good answers, and use them.
Maybe say: “Yes, I play sports… what do you like?”

As you can see, I like to turn questions and accusations around and guess that they’re trying to hide the fact that what they’re asking about is something wrong with THEM. Just don’t answer directly… and most women will give up.

If you get defensive and say “Oh, no no no… I’m not a Player at all…” most women won’t believe you anyway – even if you’re NOT a player.