Have Her Pursue You!

If you really want to make a women become attached to you, then you might want to try a paradoxical move…

Stop looking for a relationship.

If you communicate that you want a relationship, the natural response is going to be for a woman to play ‘Hard To Get’.

If the guy does the playing of the ‘Hard To Get’, and you hold off on showing the ‘relationship’ level of interest, you’ll find that the woman will pursue the relationship with you. Think about it.

Create your own Charm School
The toughest thing for a guy to do is be “charming” when he doesn’t have a clue what “charming” is.

Charming is NOT:
- sucking up to women
- giving women what YOU THINK THEY want
- acting without listening
- doing without a great reason

Guys that have a hard time to “charm” a woman really just try to do what they think women want, without understanding what women really want.

You can start with opening doors for her, pulling out a chair for a woman to sit, when getting in a car you open the door for her (when she’s the passenger), these are all classic charm moves.
Put her before you… the exact opposite of what you do now.

When you charm a woman what you are really doing is offering her some good old fashioned “women are special” treatment.

And if that doesn’t melt the clothes right off her, not much else will.

The one thing that every woman knows about you is that YOU are afraid of REJECTION.

That’s right. Every woman you approach, talk to, smile at, even just glimpse in passing, they all know that with a subtle word or smile, or look, she can turn you inside out.

BUT when you can be The Man and not show this fear every guy has, this fear of rejection, then you will hav econtrol over her. And you will be the leader of all of her emotional interest and attraction in you.

Being The Bad Boy Women Love

Bad Boys have aspects to their personalities that women find sexy. I’m always just teasing, or trying to help.

One of the things that never sat well with me was the idea that I had to do everything that a Bad Boy does in order to have women dig me.

Well, the good news is that I’ve realized that it’s very possible (and can be fun) to take some of the great things that Bad Boys do to attract women, and learn them, without being an abusive Bad Boy.

You probably see where I’m going here.

But I think that throwing tantrums, yelling at women, and being physically abusive to women are all horrible.

When you keep your composure, you actually show that you’re even stronger than if you were to get upset. I mean, if you want to get upset, feel free.

But composure is a much better way. Try it, you’ll like it.