Dear Rob,
I recently started dating a guy and we have been dating for about 4 weeks now. He is really nice and sweet, but I don’t feel he is right for me.

Also I feel he is a little to clingy.

By that I mean he tells people I am his girlfriend, (which being exclusive hasn’t been talked about between us), tells me he cares so deeply for me and my family (none of which he’s met), and recently asked me my ring size.

I am nowhere close to where he is in the “relationship category”.

The difficult thing is I want to end it ASAP, but I work 2 jobs and won’t have a chance to see him until next week.

I know the “rules” say you should do it in person, but should I really wait that long. This guy is really into me, last night he texted me I was the girl of his dreams. Please help.
Sincerely,
Freaked Out

Hi Freaked Out,
If he is moving THAT fast, I’d shut him down with whatever means I had available.

If this means a recording on his voice mail that it’s over, a text message to SLOW down, or a phone call saying you found someone else, I’d do it.

The danger with a clingy guy is that you become his PROPERTY, he has you and that’s that in his mind.

You are right to dump this immature, cling-on of a guy.
End contact and do it as fats as possible, link pulling of a bandage… 1…2…3 done!
Best wishes,
Rob.

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