Women don’t feel ATTRACTION for a guy that they can easily control.

It just doesn’t happen.

Women aren’t attracted to wussies.

When you are first dating, or about to start dating, be sure to have a plan, an attitude and enough confidence to carry you through the beginning stages of dating.

The real problem comes when guys go overboard and start using gifts and favors TOO MUCH, and start communicating to the woman that WE ARE OWNED BY HER. If you’re going to do wonderful things for a woman that you care about, make sure that you do things that MAKE AN IMPACT.

And make sure that they AREN’T PREDICTABLE. If you do something that says “I was thinking about you, and I wanted you to have a great experience” it will make FAR more of an impact than an expensive gift that wasn’t chosen with care.

But as I mentioned, don’t OVERDO the gifts and favors… don’t ever become PREDICTABLE. And, interestingly enough, this can be a great test to see how a woman can handle extra-nice treatment.
If she starts acting overly demanding and spoiled after you give her a gift of thoughtful experience, then you might have a damaged woman on your hands. Pay attention.

Remember: The point isn’t to have something cute to say to women, the POINT is getting her email/number, etc.

So don’t worry about being too cute.

Just worry about getting to the next STEP.

Here, I’ll get you started with a few ideas: “You love me.” “This relationship isn’t going to work.” “Don’t turn into a stalker, OK?” …there’s a list of three to get you going.

The MAGICAL thing about these types of responses is that they can be used in almost ANY situation.

Let’s say you’re teasing a girl, and she’s laughing and hitting you. You look at her with a serious face and say “You love me.”

Perfect.

Or you could use one of the other “standards” I’ve listed above.

The POINT is that you need to have a few STANDARD things to say in ANY situation.

Practice the above three until you can USE them.

Then take a few minutes and dedicate that GENIUS MIND of yours to coming up with a few more.

Next thing you know, you’ll actually be saying something BACK in these situations.

Dear Rob,
I recently started dating a guy and we have been dating for about 4 weeks now. He is really nice and sweet, but I don’t feel he is right for me.

Also I feel he is a little to clingy.

By that I mean he tells people I am his girlfriend, (which being exclusive hasn’t been talked about between us), tells me he cares so deeply for me and my family (none of which he’s met), and recently asked me my ring size.

I am nowhere close to where he is in the “relationship category”.

The difficult thing is I want to end it ASAP, but I work 2 jobs and won’t have a chance to see him until next week.

I know the “rules” say you should do it in person, but should I really wait that long. This guy is really into me, last night he texted me I was the girl of his dreams. Please help.
Sincerely,
Freaked Out

Hi Freaked Out,
If he is moving THAT fast, I’d shut him down with whatever means I had available.

If this means a recording on his voice mail that it’s over, a text message to SLOW down, or a phone call saying you found someone else, I’d do it.

The danger with a clingy guy is that you become his PROPERTY, he has you and that’s that in his mind.

You are right to dump this immature, cling-on of a guy.
End contact and do it as fats as possible, link pulling of a bandage… 1…2…3 done!
Best wishes,
Rob.