The real problem comes when guys go overboard and start using gifts and favors TOO MUCH, and start communicating to the woman that WE ARE OWNED BY HER. If you’re going to do wonderful things for a woman that you care about, make sure that you do things that MAKE AN IMPACT.

And make sure that they AREN’T PREDICTABLE. If you do something that says “I was thinking about you, and I wanted you to have a great experience” it will make FAR more of an impact than an expensive gift that wasn’t chosen with care.

But as I mentioned, don’t OVERDO the gifts and favors… don’t ever become PREDICTABLE. And, interestingly enough, this can be a great test to see how a woman can handle extra-nice treatment.
If she starts acting overly demanding and spoiled after you give her a gift of thoughtful experience, then you might have a damaged woman on your hands. Pay attention.

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